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| Mon, 10-31-2005 - 2:16am |
hey everyone,
im very confused at the moment. my ex broke up with me a week ago saying that long distance relationship is too hard so he wants to take a break and he wants to get back together in Jan(when we see each other again) i dont like the idea but he insists on it. so he broke up with me and doesnt care that i was so sad and a week later out of the blue he rang me and talk like nothing happen! he keep saying that he wants me back and he miss me and love me very much? i mean after all this? he said he was too busy to phone me or email me that's why he decide it's better if we take a break. but how about now? he's not too busy anymore???? he hurts me so badly but i still love him. should i forgive him? im afraid that he wil hurt me like this again in the future. please help me i want to get back with him now not next year. why we have to wait? please help really confused

I was in a LD for 3+ years. It is not easy. Take the break but have NO CONTACT. If he initiated this, then give him what he wants BUT he cannot call and say this and that..Say fine, see you in Jan. but DO NOT CALL ME OR EMAIL ME OR ANYTHING. And also tell him that you do not know what and how you will feel in Jan.
To me, it's cruel to do this to someone over the holidays..and to me, is just ain't into you as they say. I would ALSO suspect, and please know I say this with kindess, he may have someone else in mind and wants a guilt free experience? It's just something I want to send out to you. I know this sends angst to you but I speak from experience.
Move on, give him his break BUT do not give him ANY PART OF YOU.
Peace