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I need to change my name...
| Wed, 04-12-2006 - 7:17pm |
I just broke up with my boyfriend of two years this past Saturday. He keeps calling and emailing me but I responded saying that I need some time and space. He was treating me like sh*t and I was already going through alot because my aunt just passed away and I'm currently unemployed and without a vehicle so when he said that I never leave him alone I got my shoes on and left. He invited me over his mom's house for Easter and I emailed him back saying I didn't think it was a good idea and he just called me but I didn't answer. How do I get him to leave me alone for now? I have thoughts that I might get back together with him but we broke up once before and it went back to the same old sh*t. If anyone has any advice please let me know what you would do.

monogamous_in_mi...
Pianoguy suggests that you make other EASTER PLANS....and continue to ignore any other phone calls from the b/f.
According to your post, the 2 of you have gone through this same scenerio in the past, right? So why set yourself up for another heartbreak?
Give yourself 30 days to distance yourself from him. He'll probably try to contact you before the 30 days are over, but give yourself permission to be ON YOUR OWN for awhile!
If this man HONESTLY wants you to be a part of his life...he needs to readjust his head first....then the 2 of you can "rewrite the rules" before you try again!
Pianoguy
well I'm also in 'mi'... so I had to post. :)
If he was treating you like crap (your words), then I think you know what you need to do. He can't have it both ways- calling the shots about contacting you and then telling you to go away because you "never leave him alone". Um, a little bit confusing!
Sounds like you 2 are in the on again/off again pattern... that's not healthy. For your own sanity, don't take his calls, make other Easter plans (like pianoguy said) and start doing your own thing. He'll get the picture if you ignore him- he'll learn he can't treat you like that anymore if you're not around to let him!
hang in there and happy Easter!
Edited 4/13/2006 3:09 pm ET by shadow0304