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| Mon, 08-06-2007 - 12:43am |
I need help! I broke up with my boyfriend of three years a month ago. I was completly over him when we broke up. We had a few loss ends. We had a joint cell phone account and I had some furniture of his. Also he owed me $4,500 (I know how stupid to give it to him!) Anyway, this is were the problem started. I have been contacting him for two weeks to get my money back. Just tonight he called me back after I told him I was just going to transfer the money to his credit card. The moment I heard his voice all the emotions came back! The frustration, the anger, disappointment, but also the love. I have even moved on and been dating, but there is something about him (obviously since we have been together three year- one of which was 1,000 miles apart- he moved a year ago). He had proposed to me a year ago, but did not have a ring so it never was offical.
The realtionship has been up and down since he moved. I have not really trusted him for a long time. I found him on an internet dating site in October. He weasled his way back into my heart. He took a new job about 6 months ago and completly changed. Even my best friends have told me he is different. (I know I love my old boyfriend and not this new one, but I can not help myself.)
I was compleltly over him, but now after hearing his voice, I am a mix of emotions. He is suppose to call me tommorow- I told him I needed closure. I know I am going about this all wrong, but after three years and hearing his voice I am a mix of emotions! Someone please help me!

Welcome to the board yemonlimes,
Start journal writing before you see him so you can sort through your emotions and figure out where to go from here.