I need help!

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Registered: 06-12-2007
I need help!
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Mon, 08-06-2007 - 12:43am

I need help! I broke up with my boyfriend of three years a month ago. I was completly over him when we broke up. We had a few loss ends. We had a joint cell phone account and I had some furniture of his. Also he owed me $4,500 (I know how stupid to give it to him!) Anyway, this is were the problem started. I have been contacting him for two weeks to get my money back. Just tonight he called me back after I told him I was just going to transfer the money to his credit card. The moment I heard his voice all the emotions came back! The frustration, the anger, disappointment, but also the love. I have even moved on and been dating, but there is something about him (obviously since we have been together three year- one of which was 1,000 miles apart- he moved a year ago). He had proposed to me a year ago, but did not have a ring so it never was offical.

The realtionship has been up and down since he moved. I have not really trusted him for a long time. I found him on an internet dating site in October. He weasled his way back into my heart. He took a new job about 6 months ago and completly changed. Even my best friends have told me he is different. (I know I love my old boyfriend and not this new one, but I can not help myself.)

I was compleltly over him, but now after hearing his voice, I am a mix of emotions. He is suppose to call me tommorow- I told him I needed closure. I know I am going about this all wrong, but after three years and hearing his voice I am a mix of emotions! Someone please help me!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: yemonlimes
Mon, 08-06-2007 - 12:24pm

Welcome to the board yemonlimes,


Start journal writing before you see him so you can sort through your emotions and figure out where to go from here.