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| Mon, 11-13-2006 - 4:57am |
hi, i just broke up with my boyfren. we were together for 2 1/2 years.This is my very first relationship. I broke up with him bec he was bein very lazy. i felt tt the spark in the relationship was diminishin. I actually expected him to go all out to win me back but he accepted the break up and neva called me since then
i don really know wat tt means. i also called him and told him tt i want him back he said he wants to be single, he also did tell me tt he loves me lot. i don know what to beleive bec why would he leave me if he loves me!am confused! should i get over him?
two days ago i called him after two weeks. i missed him so much
we had a decent conversation, but then again i felt tt i was the only one takin an effort. i always feel tt i am the only one who wants the relationship bec he does not put in the effort.after the last call he did not call me or message me. does he want the relationship? i don know... can someone tell me a solution, no one around me is givin me a solution. all tt they do is to tell me to wait! i am left hangin in the middle, this affects me!someone needs to help me!
i don really know wat tt means. i also called him and told him tt i want him back he said he wants to be single, he also did tell me tt he loves me lot. i don know what to beleive bec why would he leave me if he loves me!am confused! should i get over him?
two days ago i called him after two weeks. i missed him so much
we had a decent conversation, but then again i felt tt i was the only one takin an effort. i always feel tt i am the only one who wants the relationship bec he does not put in the effort.after the last call he did not call me or message me. does he want the relationship? i don know... can someone tell me a solution, no one around me is givin me a solution. all tt they do is to tell me to wait! i am left hangin in the middle, this affects me!someone needs to help me!

I know how you feel but you have to understand you did the uncoupling. He's taking you seriously and wants to go on with his life. You need to let him do that. If he's not what you want, lazy and all, why accept that behavior? I think you're feeling lonely right now which is understandable. Give yourself somebtime to heal. But whatever you do, don't look back. If you get back together again, the same problems will resurface again only to make you unhappy.