I need help!!! He dumped me
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| Mon, 04-02-2007 - 8:01pm |
Hello everyone,
It's a pleasure to have guys like you. I'm presently in a situation where I was dumped about two weeks ago. I am living in the Caribbean and I was dating this guy for around seven months. this was a long distance relationship as he was living in the states. He was 14 yrs my senior, he being 40 and im 26. We were having a great relationship as i had known him since i was a teenager.(we were actually neighbours at one point before he migrated to the states).
To cut a long story short, however, we had an argument and it turns out that he was shouting at me and i got angry and told him 'not to speak to me like a kid' and he got all upset and told me tht he won't call me anymore. since then it has been 3 weeks now and he is not talking to me. I tried to call him and he said its over. Im so hurt because i love him so much . I keep calling and texting him but he is not responding. Im troubled!

It seems that he treated you like a child, his child. A 40 something man looking for a LDR with a 26 young girl screams "fun" and not serious relationship. I may be off here, but it seems that this argument was the straw that broke the camel's back. I wonder why he was shouting at you and why you got angry? If you had a decent, respectful and normal relationship, shouting shouldn't have been involved.
Maybe, due to his age he sees you as a child, a child who he has to control and dominate. You on the other hand are not a child, but cannot make him see yu as an adult, a GF, an active participant in the relationship. FYI, after the 7th month or so all the flaws start to appear, and it's possible that this man's standards in life say that he can shout to you or any GF he may have.
If you called him and he said it's over then take his word, it s over. He'll in no time will get another 20 something girl to have some fun with him.