I need help, for my mom
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I need help, for my mom
| Wed, 03-22-2006 - 12:22pm |
Well where can i start, i usually write about my issues.. but this time i need advice for my mom... my mom is 42 yrs old. and she has been married for 25yrs. We just found recently that my father wants to leave her and can't stand it the\at she is always fighting with him and that she doesn't trust him. it was 3yrs ago that my dad had an affair with another woman, but that is where the bomb exploded. ever since then she is always accusing him. well my question is how can my sister and i give my mother moral and emotional support. My dad told me today that he has met someone else 2 wks ago. But that is not the reason for leaving my mom. He wants the fighting to stop and all the issues that he gets at home. My mom is really upset and doesn't know how to start moving on. this is so fresh that she doesn't know where to start. She doesn't work because my dad wanted her to stop after she got really sick years back, from her old job. ever since then she doesn't work. But now my sis and i tell her that she needs to look for a job and try to look ahead and try to forget this until she feels better. what could i tell my "mom" to forget about our dad and that she needs to move on. I really don't know. i didn't think i would be trying to give my own mother advice on her soon to be ex-husband. What the hell???!!!!???? I just want to know how you could advice her and help her how to cope with the situation. Yes, i am probably leaving certain things out but i need to to make it short and simple. Can someone please help me!!!????? i am really in desperate need.
thank you
ivonne
thank you
ivonne

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