I need quick advice! Help

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Registered: 04-12-2007
I need quick advice! Help
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Thu, 04-12-2007 - 10:28pm
I am new here and new to all of this. My husband of 4 years has decided that he no longer wants to be married. I am shell shocked. I suggested marriage counseling but he says he doesn't real feel like that is something that he wants to do. He moved in with a friend until he can find something else. I know my teenage daughter has been a drain on him but I can't control that. He feels that I am not the partner he wants. He wanted a "Wifey Wifey", one that cooked. I admit that I have not been the wife that I could of been. He is very critical of me, but I still love him and know I could change if he would come home. He said that he was going to come by tonight to get some more of his things. I think I am going to crack. Today when we spoke he says that he just needs more time. Loosing my mind!
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Registered: 03-09-2005
Thu, 04-12-2007 - 11:11pm

I'm so sorry you have go through this. I am sure it hurts a lot and you're confused and I definately understand your love for him...

I wish I had some great advice, but all I can say is that the more you pressure him to come back, the more he will probably distance himself.

Turn it over to God and allow him to miss you. He may come back himself. If he doesn't know that God has something else in store for you.

Good luck and keep your head up.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 04-13-2007 - 2:17pm

Hi verysadtoday,


I responded to you on the other board.

** Carrie **


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