I really need advice about the ex...

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Registered: 01-28-2004
I really need advice about the ex...
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Mon, 11-01-2004 - 2:17pm
my ex wants to be friends..not sure why..i am afraid if i am friends with him i will start to fall for him again..isn`t he thinking about that at all?he was never a bad guy,just rumors broke us up,and he hung out with a jerk who started problems by the time he stopped hanging out with him the damage was done and I didn`t know who or what to believe anymore..very stupid things...my mom and couple friends think maybe he wants to start over.eps since he could be out chasing girls and he is so eager to be friends again..we were friendly but he got mad at me for accusing him of things again and blew me off for awhile,esp since i said mean things on his voicemail,but apologized..and he seemed to want me back,we talked about maybe trying again...i think i just need a break from guys!a guy friend is interested in me also..my ex is not a user either,he is not out for one thing which is why i loved him he is a great guy,just acted stupid but who isn`t at times...and i am not into flings so he knows if he wanted that i would not be the one to call...any advice is appreciated,as long as it isn`t argumenting since some women on boards have insulted me with rude comments causing back and forth arguing..i don`t do that to nayone on the baords so have some respect for EVERYBODY or don`t respond at all
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Registered: 01-30-2004
Mon, 11-01-2004 - 10:02pm
(((Chesire))) I haven't seen you in awhile!! Welcome back!! I rembember when you ex was saying he didn't want to be friends....oh how times change!! I think you know what you should do but you are just looking for reassurance. If you're afraid of falling for him again....then it's too soon to try and be friends. You said yourself, you need a break from guys and I think he should be included. I think you would do best to stear clear of him until you are absoluteley 100% over him. But this is your decision and I will support you no matter what you decide. Good luck and keep us posted!!









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