I saw my ex with another girl...
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| Wed, 11-10-2004 - 6:50pm |
I was dating my boyfriend for 6 months. I strongly believed he was the one and we often discussed marriage. However, we fought often due to being in different stages in our lives. He was self employed, I was unenployed struggling with finding a job etc. I acted immaturally and broke up with him four times. I never thought he would take me seriously, I was just trying to get a point accros. Finally he couldn't take it and ended it. I have leared my lesson since. It has been 2 months and I cannot get over this. I am really struggling. Two weeks ago I saw him with another girl and was devestated. We were at a bar and I pretended I was with another man to get a reaction out of him. It worked because he approached a friend of mine and asked what was going on. This past weekend he showed up at my job (a restaurant which he has not set foot in since we broke up) with his new girlfriend. I am so upset that he would do this to me when he knew I was there. I remained calm and politly introduced myself to her and was friendly to him and showed no signs of my sadness. I am struggling with this everyday and just don't know what to do anymore. I've heard over and over that if it is not meant to be it cant be forced, time heals, etc. However, nothing seems to be hleping. Can anyone offer any advcice?

Lynne