I shouldn't be happy about this but...
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I shouldn't be happy about this but...
| Tue, 11-30-2004 - 7:42pm |
He finally called Sunday after three weeks of nothing. I posted before about how I came home and he was gone and I was worried I would never hear from him again. I know NC is the way to go and I kinda respected the rule. I looked at his number on the caller ID but I didn't pick up. I think he wanted me to see the number and call him back, but I didn't do that. It was so weird because I felt like I was hitting rock bottom on Sunday. I could not stop crying and later on that night he calls twice. I felt great to know that he at least was thinking of me and perhaps feeling a little of what I am going through. I've been feeling pretty good ever since. That little semblence of care is all I really wanted. Now if he continues to call, I guess I should change my number and really start moving on. I just don't know if I'm ready for that yet. :(

I cant believe what Im reading.
Its this : " That little semblence of care is all I really wanted. Now if he continues to call, I guess I should change my number and really start moving on ".
Maybe I think as a man , yes I am but for me, if I call a girl after a break up to see how she is doing AND she thanks it by changing her number, oh how poor and ungrateful she is!.
Maybe u see it as "healing" (which it may seem what most girls think it is) but believe me, me and possibly any man will think of that kind of actions as utterly gross and never giving the relationship the value it (supposedly) had.
THANK U.
What if your ex has clearly and politely asked you NOT to contact her until she's had time to heal (and said she will contact you when she's ready)? In that case, a phone call to see how she's doing would be disrespectful and unkind, don't you think? I would (and have) blocked exes who didn't respect me enough to do as I had asked.
Sheri
Sorry, I was responding to "Male Intruder"...his post seemed to imply that an ex should be able to call you no matter what and that it was rude to not take his calls. I disagree, in situations where you've clearly conveyed that you don't want to talk to him. It was a hypothetical, not your situation.
Sheri
I haven't heard from my ex-fiance since he left me over the phone.