I spoke TOO soon!
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I spoke TOO soon!
| Tue, 02-20-2007 - 8:32pm |
So last night I posted about having 84 days of NC and feeling like I was having a relapse. Well no sooner did I submit my post and I look at my phone and there is THE missed call. Ironically, he must have been feeling the same way and decided it was time to make contact. I called him back after about an hour and we talked for 45 minutes. I am now even more confused than ever. It was a good conversation, very open and candid. There was no talk of getting back together or seeing each other but he wants to talk again. As much as I wanted to email or call him today, I did not. What do I do? Do I not talk to him? Should I have not called him back? Deep down, I will always love him but after 3 breakups, I am bruised and hurt and afraid of it happening again. I would love your advice.

Ok you already know he doesn't want to get back together.
Thanks Ladies,
I know you are all right. I need to be strong right now. It's so hard though. This is the man I thought I was meant to be with. I should clarify that all the breakups were not necessarily on his part. I pushed him. It's not an excuse, I know, but I did play a part. It's very hard to put finality to this and wonder if I am making the right choice. I still feel strong and know I can persevere thru it!
hey!
just out of curiosity - you mentioned that your ex started callin 4 months post break up ?? any significance for the 4 months??
im on 3 months NC. he hasn't contacted me at all. then again i haven't made it easier for him. blocked him online and chnaged my number. though of course, like they say , if a man really wants to call you he will find a way.
we were together for 4 years. 3 months is a shorttime but i'm doing better. but yes , being on this board helps so much, like i know EVEN if he calls, i'm NOT ging to take his calls at all. noticed though that most exs do call , if not for reconciliation, justto "check up" . i've got nothing like that from mine other than the occasional snooping on my social networking site. let's see.