I Think He is Really Messing with me
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| Wed, 11-21-2007 - 4:01pm |
Hi there, me and my bf have been having problems for the past month. During this time I told him I was going to leave him, becuase of some lies and him having issues with being emotional. Since then he has told me that he is falling in love with me and that he sees a life with me and that he knows we can make it adn be happy and all those other things, then on Monday he sends me an email saying he's not sure he can do this and that he is afraid he will be unable to change enough to please me and cannot bear the thought of disappointing me again. This is soo messed up becuase one day he is saying all these beautiful things and then literally the next day he is freaking out and telling me that he feels bipolar because he doesnt know if what he is feeling and promising me is real or if he just feels guilty. I told him to take the rest of the week and not contact me just to think since we have a 4 day weekend and he was also so stressed out at work. I told him to think about what he really feels and wants. So here I am feeling like am I am in limbo and it scares the crap out of me. We have been together 10 months and I feel like if he calls or emails me later this week and says that he is not ready to be in a relationship and that he needs to be alone I may lose my mind becuase I feel like I have been put through an emotional roller coaster.

Welcome to the board sweetbabe75,
Here's the thing, when going through a break up, people will say all kinds of things.... after you break up with him, he says "he is falling in love with me and that he sees a life with me and that he knows we can make it adn be happy and all those other things," - my guess unfortunately is that he was hurt, his ego was bruised that you were breaking up with him so he said what he thought he needed to stay to stop the break-up.
I was with a guy who did this when we broke up.
"OMG, I got engaged, the world will never be the same!...."
&nbs
Welcome to the board Deb,
Thanks for participating, feel free to stick around and post anytime.
Break up rule #1 , no matter what you feel, wait at least 24 hours before acting on it, because 9 times out of 10 you *will* change your mind.
Thank you for the welcome.
"OMG, I got engaged, the world will never be the same!...."
&nbs