i think that he's trying to come back

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Registered: 03-27-2006
i think that he's trying to come back
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Mon, 03-27-2006 - 4:01pm
well it's been about two months since we broke up there are many factors that went into our breakup...... one being my parents they were WAY over protective.... another being his drinking he began to drink more than usual.... But recently he has been coming around more he just recently went to visit my parents at there work ... that's the first time since we broke up .. and this past week he came over my house for about an hour to chat and catch up .... i asked him if he thinks if we will ever get back together and he said that he didn't know if the thing that happend to break us up ( my father kicked him out of the house) (looooooooong story too many details to type) was going to happen 10 years from now then no ..... but my father said that he did overreact and that he was going to appologize to him everyone i talk to seems to think that he is just trying to find his was back to me .... my mom seems to think that maybe he was starting to fall inlove with me ( b/c when i picked him up one night when he was drunk he told me that it was little things that like that were making him fall in love with me ) I was just wondering what anyone else thought ???
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Mon, 03-27-2006 - 4:20pm

hi fairy

wow thats good his trying to convinced you and your parents. well about his being phobia about your dad. he could deal with that believed me. SO IF HE ASK YOU BACK...WHY NOT RIGHT!!! GO FOR IT! JUST BE READY AGAIN TO TAKE THAT RISK

ATLEAST NOW BOTH OF YOU LEARN AND MORE AWARE OF EVERYTHING. FOR ME I THINK LOVE IN SECOND TIME AROUND IS MORE STRONGER THAT BEFORE. MORE CARE, LOVING, RESPECT, TRUST AND THE MORE WE PUT VALUE IN OUR RELATIONSHIP.

SO GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS YOU!!!

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Mon, 03-27-2006 - 4:32pm

Hi there ....

yes I do beleive that probably in the next couple of weeks He will try and get back together .... the whole thing with my dad and him was kinda ugly ( my dad has a temper ) there were not fists involved but if i were him i wouldnt be so sure either ...... he told me that he hasn't been drinking as much which is good and i finally gave him his stuff that he left in my car before we broke up ... the only thing that stinks is that he lives right down the road from my friend Ann's house and there is NO way possibal to visit her without going past his house.... which made it EXTREMLY hard for me the first couple of weeks and it still is kinda hard... i think that im still going threw the griefing process...... there are days were i dont think about him and then there are days where he's all i think about .... One day last week i was really sick ... it was right after he came over my house ... i couldn't sleep at ALL so i called him at like 11 and we talked for like an hour and i didnt ened up getting to sleep untill like 4:30 and i had to get up at 6 to go to work and the whole day i didnt eat anything and was just thinking if i asked him the wrong thing( about us getting back together) and that night i threw up for about 2 hours ... my mom seems to think that it was my nerves and such ..... but im doing better on the whole remembering to eat and not think about him sooooooooo much thing ! ! ! LOL we shall see what happens in the weeks and days to come ........ i will say that the one book that worked for me was "its called a breakup cuz it's broken"

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Mon, 03-27-2006 - 4:59pm
ABOUT YOUR DAD DONT WORRY ABOUT ITS VERY NATURAL THAT ARE PARENT TRYING TO OVER PROTECT US..ARENT YOU GLAD THAT YOUR EXBF WILL GET CHALLENGES. GUYS LIKES THAT PART BETTER COZ THE MORE THEIR BEING EAGER TO HAVE US. DONT YOU THINK?
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Tue, 03-28-2006 - 9:57am
yeah ... i think that it's good that my dad is willing to see that he overreacted a little bit also and is going to apologize ....