I think I did it now

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Registered: 06-19-2006
I think I did it now
Tue, 09-28-2010 - 7:28pm

the guy I used to date and still care for and I are friends still ... and we keep trying to make plans but there always seems to be a reason ... but he is a very honest guy so I usually just deal with the reason and move on

today I am pmsing and I am just over the situation so after getting blow off again with a "lets shoot for next week" I texted him back and said "I have a feeling I am being nicely blown off ... am I right?"

No answer yet...

I just want him to be as honest and blunt as I have been

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-19-2006
Tue, 09-28-2010 - 8:49pm
the response I get "no, just working alot right now.
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Registered: 09-23-2009
Wed, 09-29-2010 - 6:47pm

He does not meet your needs as far as the time you like to spend with a man. I've been there and done that. I broke up with someone who could only make time for me on Monday's. I broke up with a workaholic, because he didn't make enough time for me, and when he did, he was so tired from work that most of the time we just watched t.v. together.

This man doesn't meet your needs. Move on and find someone who is compatible with you.

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 1:31pm

My friends don't blow me off time and time again.

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Thu, 10-07-2010 - 11:48am

He doesn't sound like a great friend.

If you need to continue torturing yourself in this "friendship", accept the fact that he's a huge flake and that plans will always be broken. Don't let it upset you. If you have any expectations of this guy whatsoever, you will be disappointed.

If I were you, I would rather just not respond to him again and put more emphasis on the friendships I have with people who make an effort, and who actually make me happy.