i want to leave

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2007
i want to leave
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Sun, 01-07-2007 - 6:11pm
So... I've been with this guy for 2 years now...We were engaged and everything was going great. The past 2 months we have been fighting like crazy...really bad fights! I have a 15 month old daughter and I cant have that around her. About 4 weeks ago i realized that I just don't have those feelings for him anymore, I mean... I love him i'm just not in love with him anymore. We still live together and i can't stannd seeing him... 3 weeks ago i ran into an old friend. This friend and I used to talk alot and be very close...we both had feelings for eachother, but i shyed away from it and stopped talking to him. Well we've been talking again and I've been going to hang out with this guy a lot and we've been hooking up.
I don't know what's going to happen with my friend and i right now, but i know i dont want a relationship and he knows that... My ex wont stop crying to me and telling me how much he loves me.... I dont know what to do.. i'm confused. I dont feel bad about it either, but i do feel bad that I am going to give my landlord my 30 day notice....I want to leave him. can some1 help>?? thank you
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2003
Sun, 01-07-2007 - 8:32pm
The grass is not greener and hooking up with the old friend, won't be in your best interest...but it's a temporary escape from what's going on at home. What are you arguing about? Would either of you be willing to go to counseling to work through the issues. People do 'fall in love' again, espeically when the build emotional intimacy, but you have to want to.


Carrie