I want to leave,I think hes suicidal..
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I want to leave,I think hes suicidal..
| Sun, 11-14-2004 - 11:16am |
My husband works 7 days a week to keep up ungodly support payments to his ex.We married 6 yrs ago ,shortly after.. he lost his sex drive and we basically have a sexless marriage.
Last night I told him how unhappy I am, I cried alot,I told him I cannot go on like this with him.
This morning he was crying saying not to leave him ect.He left a note on the counter,asking who would miss him when hes dead,that all hes good at is work and hes a failure as a husband /father.
I'm confused, and scared. :(
Last night I told him how unhappy I am, I cried alot,I told him I cannot go on like this with him.
This morning he was crying saying not to leave him ect.He left a note on the counter,asking who would miss him when hes dead,that all hes good at is work and hes a failure as a husband /father.
I'm confused, and scared. :(

I would just like to say i have never been in this situation but this is what i would do. firstly why are the support payments so high? if i were you i would talk to the csa and get them to review it. Giving a lot of money especially if it is making you depressed does not make you a good parent. I'm sure his child would much prefer a happy dad to one that is buying him new trainers every week.
How about suggesting counselling? I no most men run a mile when you mention it, but if he really loves you and wants you to stay then he would do it for you. It couldn't do him any harm and maybe he would find it easier to talk to someone else that he doesn't feel will judge him or think any less of him, and it really could help.
I hope things work out for you. Keep me posted. good luck.