If your ex wanted you back, what woul...

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If your ex wanted you back, what woul...
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Thu, 09-30-2004 - 10:14am

If your ex wanted you back, what would you do?



  • I'd go back to him/her today without reservations.
  • I would never go back to him/her.
  • I would go back to him/her under certain conditions.
  • I would have to take some time to think about it.


You will be able to change your vote.


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Thu, 09-30-2004 - 1:20pm
Looking at these posts sort of makes me wonder what all our sadness and anger is about. So far the people who have done the poll aren't saying they would go back to their exes without reservations. This makes me think these relationships really weren't wonderful. So maybe we're really better off without them? And maybe, though we can't see through our pain right now, once we feel better, we'll be truly free to love again. And when we're ready we'll find someone who will truly treat us well. That's my hope for all of us.
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Thu, 09-30-2004 - 4:29pm
this is the 2nd time my stb-x walked out on our marriage... there is no way to ever take him back... the trust has been completely shattered... I would always be wondering when he was going to walk out next...
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Sat, 10-30-2004 - 1:59am
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Sat, 10-30-2004 - 2:49am
I'd say, "Are you nucking futs?" Yes, he is!
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Sat, 10-30-2004 - 9:01am
I'd laugh in his face and probably mutter "Are you F**king kidding me?" ... It's been over a week and I've totally come to the conclusion that my ex was such a jerk and it's sooooooo good I found this out now, so I didn't waste anymore time on a person who has no emotions, no feelings for anyone but himself. Now, I can life my live and find that person WHO is worth my time. Cheers!

Lynne

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Registered: 11-30-2003
Sat, 10-30-2004 - 6:56pm
I would take him back in a second. I know that probably sounds bad to most people out there, but I don't care. I love him more than anything, and the reason we broke up was really non-existant. If he wanted me back I would be there before you could say jinglehiemer.
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Mon, 11-01-2004 - 9:47am
I can honestly say at this point probably not, I've been having a really good time the past two weeks or so especially. I even ended up bumping into an old high school crush the other week from 10 years ago (who still looks like a hottie) and having a date with him last week and had a great time, I didn't even think about my ex once!

I don't have any animosity towards my ex, if we bumped into each other I would talk to him and be friendly, but I have really no interest in getting back together, it's been 3 weeks since we've spoken to or seen each other.