I'm Feeling Better but Still Curious
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I'm Feeling Better but Still Curious
| Fri, 06-30-2006 - 10:18pm |
I received some wonderful advice when I originally posted as "regretful". Although I am feeling a lot better (one week without trying to contact him!), I am still trying to figure things out on my own. In particular what might have changed in him from the night before to the next day. Sunday night he was happy to see me. He was affectionate and we did have sex. The next day I'd reach for him and he was unresponsive - he literally asked me to stop touching him. He did mention that he didn't think he was making me happy. Now I've always had issues reaching climax through intercourse. I never actually got the chance to discuss this with him seeing how we were only together for a month. Does anyone think that this could be the big mystery behind the sudden personality change? I can understand the frustration he must feel and perhaps he has too much pride to talk about it.
I know I'm probably nuts for still thinking about what went wrong, but I try to think of every relationship as a learning experience and I can't learn anything from this one until I know what changed in less than 24 hours. Help please! What do you think? After all... I'm most likely never going to get an answer from him.
I know I'm probably nuts for still thinking about what went wrong, but I try to think of every relationship as a learning experience and I can't learn anything from this one until I know what changed in less than 24 hours. Help please! What do you think? After all... I'm most likely never going to get an answer from him.

I really, really doubt that's it. It's much more likely that it's some issue of his you don't know about.
And if that IS it, then he's clearly not right for you! I mean, wouldn't a guy who was right for you TALK to you about his concerns rather than acting coldly and breaking up with you?
I know how tempting it is to look for an answer to "why" but sometimes the answer is "because the two of you aren't right for each other" and it's not possible to get more specificity.
Sheri
Yeah, I know what you're saying. However I did discuss the issue with some male friends and they think it could have been the reason if it's a pride thing. I hear that we may have been "not right" for each other, but did he suddenly decide that when he rolled out of bed the next morning because there were no signs of him thinking that night before.
I guess it doesn't matter anymore. I was just trying to find my own closure. Thanks anyway!