Im really proud of myself!!!

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Registered: 08-10-2007
Im really proud of myself!!!
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Mon, 08-13-2007 - 6:37am
Hello i posted a discussion last week about my boyfriend of nearly 3 years who dumped me because he wanted to be single.
Iv spent loads of time with my friends and its nice to catch up with them. I still miss him soooooo much, i feel as if i need a new routine to get me back on track. I still think about him all the time but when i get an urge to txt him i call my friends. Yeah i still talk to him and txt each other. i still love him... i probably always will. the thing i find the hardest is that he is no longer mine, and one day he may say the same things to someone else as he said to me, and someone else may be sleeping in my side of the bed...things like that really. Any ideas on how to get me through that???
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Registered: 08-30-2005
Mon, 08-13-2007 - 6:53am
sorry to be blunt...u said when u have to urge to text message him u call ur friends.then u said u still talk to him and text message with him.....how do u suppose to get over him by still in contact with him.....change the title to still in contact with ex rather than u r proud of urself.the only way to get over someone is NO CONTACT like many others here suggested with the NC rule.
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Registered: 08-10-2007
Mon, 08-13-2007 - 8:05am
im still proud of myself...its only been a week and i hvnt cried in 4 days, that sumthin to b proud of! i cant stop tlkin to him we have been throught too much tgether, too much family problems he has helped me through. i dont want to stop tlkin to him. im not seeing him just makin sure were both ok.im proud...it would b nice if someone was proud of me back.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 08-13-2007 - 1:41pm

Welcome to the board wisha_20,


Congrats on almost always calling your friends instead of him. However, as long as you continue to talk to him and communicate with him (read that Have No Contact) you will prolong the agnoy and grief.