I'm so sad :(
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| Mon, 07-26-2004 - 11:22am |
I stayed firm and told him no. That he was already on his second chance and I can't trust what he says. He called again Sunday night and I told him the same thing.
I know its the right thing. All my friends think so too. But its so hard to end a good relationship because he won't commit. Especially when now he's saying, ok, now I'll commit. But if it's not what he really wants or is ready for... if he's just doing it so he doesn't lose me... it's not right...
So I want to do no contact. I need to do it but he has stuff at my house. Should I have him come over soon to get his stuff? Have him go when I'm not home? or wait a while before having him get it. (It's nothing important, a tv, kitchen stuff, a pair of shorts - he could wait for it).

I admire your strength in standing firm on your decision. Stay with your gut feeling and don't give in...it just restarts the make-up, break-up cycle all over. Arrange to have a friend take his stuff back or to hang out at your house when he picks it up (preferably off the front porch with you not there). Face to face meetings just give them a chance to shed their big crocodile tears and play on your tender emotions. His loss, you've got better things to do with your time and your life...good luck!