I'm so sad, I cry during Love Movies

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Registered: 04-22-2003
I'm so sad, I cry during Love Movies
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Wed, 02-28-2007 - 10:03pm

I'm so unhappy, I cry at the end of love movies, from sadness. I don't love my husband, but he loves me, he loves our child.
He doesn't want to leave us. I don't want to hurt his feeling by telling him I don't love him and I never loved him. I only married him because I was pregnant. I don't love him. I'm so distressed. I want out but then I'll be alone.

When I got married I moved to the suburbs. All my friends here are married. I work at my parents business all day and then I come home to my 18 month old. I have a house in the suburbs with a yard that faces a golf green. Everyone I know here is married. All my single friends live in the city, have interesting jobs, have a life. All I have is a 10 minute commute.

I never see anyone but my married friends (at the gym at 7 am) and my family. I'm so unhappy and feel that life is leaving me by. I've become hypothiroid and have gained 20 lbs. None of my clothes fit me. I'm so sad.

I want my life back!

Anybody there have any words of encouragement for me? I have noone to talk to. I need someone to help.
P

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Registered: 11-21-2003
Thu, 03-01-2007 - 12:32am

Unfortunately, you made your own bed and now you have to lay in it. You married because you were pregnant, but you don't love your husband and now you have an 18th month old child. It's a very hard situation becuase you cannot up and leave; you'll be hurting people who love you. Your husband loves you and he loves his child.

Since you're so unhappy due to this situation, I'd suggest to look for counseling for yourself to see if you can solve this problem, your problem. You got into this situation and now you have to solve it. See what the counselor says and go from there.

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Fri, 03-02-2007 - 2:46pm
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Registered: 06-22-2006
Fri, 03-02-2007 - 3:10pm

Hi Patty,


I'm sorry you're finding yourself in such a low funk.

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