I'm sooooo stupid!!!
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I'm sooooo stupid!!!
| Sun, 10-09-2005 - 6:24pm |
Before i begin this little tirade i just want to appologise to anyone i may offend by my recent stupid behaviour. Ok, i have always said that i would never date a married man, firstly because i would not want to do that to another woman, secondly i would not want that done to me and thirdly i have too much self respect. At least i thought i did., in brief, i began dating this man who i work with, he had seperated from his wife and was aware that i would not begin seeing him until he was single. He was just one of those people i clicked with,things got quite serious quite quickly, we even talked about having children (believe me this is a first for me, at 31 i have always loathed children and firmly felt that they should be locked under the stairs until 18!!!). Anyway after a couple of months he tells me that he is going back to his wife. He says that he does not love her and is only staying with her to prove his family and friends wrong and that it is a doomed relationship. (Yes.....i know!). The other issue with our relationship was that he is from a diffrent culture and this in part was why he wanted to go back. My family are delighted as he was not 'what they wanted for their daughter'. Anyway, after 2 weeks of 'giving him a chance'(yes....we have reached the realms of complete idiot now) i called him and finished it, he said that he loves me and knows he is probably making the biggest mistake of his life. I know i have done the right thing and that he is a spineless twat so why do i feel like someone has removed my insides with a rusty spaghetti fork????????? Plus i now have to work with him......(again......stupid) Arrrghhhhh................

You are both strong ladies for telling him to take a hike! Everyone chooses bad partners every now and then. You did what you thought was best at the time - don't beat yourself up! I hope you have faith that there a great people out there just waiting for you - now go get 'em, ladies! :) Best wishes!
--hurtingbutstrong