I'm sorry, everyone
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| Sun, 12-30-2007 - 7:34pm |
Hi all,
I just wanted to apologize for not having been around the board the past few days. My computer decided to go on strike and has been in the shop getting new parts over the past few days. Timed it perfectly to when Carrie goes away on her year-end retreat, too, so she hasn't been around much lately either.
But I'm back "in business" now and hope to catch up with as many of you as I can over the next couple of days. I know-- believe me, I know how hard this time of year is, especially when trying to deal with not only the year-end holiday stress but to pile heartbreak and recovery on top of all that. It can get bad. I had a mini-meltdown a couple of days ago, so I undersand what you're feeling.
In the meantime, just a few quick tips:
1. If you have even the tiniest question of whether you should do it, don't. Whatever it is.
2. Don't make any kind of decisions or take any actions, especially to contact the ex, when you're upset. Wait a full 24 hours and see how you feel then.
3. Surround yourself with other people right now. Being alone at the holidays, even if you think it'll be ok, sucks. Don't do it, especially right now.
4. Don't get too frustrated or discouraged waiting for a reply on your posts. I'll try to catch up to as many as I can in the next couple of days, and this time of year is busy for most people so it may take a bit before you get a response. You're not alone, and you're not forgotten or forsaken, I promise.
Hugs to all,
| Wed, 01-02-2008 - 5:45pm |
