I'm such a wuss!!!

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Registered: 09-29-2006
I'm such a wuss!!!
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Sat, 12-16-2006 - 4:48pm
I STILL have a couple of bags of his things that I need to return to him and I can't figure out how to do it. I had planned to just drop them off on his back deck when no one was home (he lives very close to me) and then send an email telling him where they were. There have been a few times when I have gone by his house and no one was there, but I just freeze and keep going. I think I am nervous because I expect this will open up contact again, and when that happens I go over everything in my mind all over again. I know if I drop it off when he's not there he'll call me and want to know why I didn't give it to him in person. Would I be better off to just call him when I see he's home and tell him I'm bringing it by? Someone suggested mailing it but I really don't want to do that. I kind of worry about leaving them outside, but I think they would be ok on his back deck. It's not anything valuable. There are picture discs in there and I dread when he looks at them. I'm just afraid this will open up another can of worms. Should I just forget the whole thing until he asks for them again?
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Registered: 08-04-2003
Sat, 12-16-2006 - 4:55pm

::I know if I drop it off when he's not there he'll call me and want to know why I didn't give it to him in person.

Sorry, but why do you care what he thinks or does? I mean if he calls, don't answer.


Carrie

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Registered: 05-13-2004
Sat, 12-16-2006 - 6:53pm
just drop them off, time to move on! its a big step but we have all done it, and it helps let me tell you!