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Instead of calling, I will...
| Tue, 03-20-2007 - 11:25am |
Lots of discussion this week about not contacting the ex, maybe even a little more than usual, probably because we have a lot of newbies in the last few weeks join us.

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...take my dog for a walk
...go for a run
...make myself a nice apple martini and watch Sex and the City
2. Call a friend
3. Think to myself, if he wanted to speak to me, he would call, and he never did
2. Reread his mean emails.
3. Paint my toenails.
4. Call anyone but him.
5. Clean my house.
6. Go for a walk.
7. Get on the message boards and vent.
8. Take a bath.
9. Have a good cry and take a xanax.
2. remember that although the breakup is not mutual, you can't force anyone into something that they don't want to do or feel
3. go to the gym
4. call a friend even if it is just to cry
5. clean the house
6. get out of the house and do something- shopping or whatever
7. read a book or watch a movie
8. read the message boards
Ride bikes with my daughter.
Play softball with my daughter.
Be happy that my daughter and I are together.
Edited 3/20/2007 12:34 pm ET by robp_2181
Instead of calling him...
I will take number out of my phone (can't call him then!)
I will go on a run
I will watch television
I will call a friend
I will pray to God for strength and peace
I will pray for the future guy God has for me
I will read the list of all the things I DISLIKED about him
I will remind myself WHY the relationship was not right and how I don't want to be with him... BECAUSE I DONT!
I will remember how he kept me on a string for an entire month and then when i asked him if he still wanted to be with me... he told me it was more of a friendship thing... THANKS FOR TELLING ME BUDDY!
I will allow myself to miss him... but only 10-20 minutes out of the day until that feeling subsides.
I will allow myself to cry
I will allow myself to get mad
I will allow myself to eat a whole pint of ice cream
I will allow myself to do nothing
I will allow myself to go out with friends and have an awesome time
I WILL ALLOW MYSELF TO HEAL! Because I deserve whats best for me...
I will
Spend time with my sister
pray for a wonderful future
pray for the right man in my life for the future
get dressed up
work out
indulge a little
watch breakup movies
cry
think about the way i felt when he told me it was over
i will read reread all my breakup books that i have bought over the last three months
i will remember all the bad things about him
i will know in my heart that things happen for a reason..and i will have faith in god that there is so much better waiting for me out there..i will have faith!!
Remember all the horrible things he did to me and how he made me feel.
Tell myself that he does not care about me or want to hear from me.
Remind myself that he wants me to leave him alone.
Tell myself that I want to heal and move past this.
I will visit people who would really enjoy my company.
I will do nice things for others.
I'm going to make a huge pot of beef vegatable soup, and take it to work. (If we all lived by eachother, I'd give you all a bowl:)
I'm also going on a baking binge.
I'm going to start making an effort to make myself look nice. This means buying make-up, and a few new clothes (Which means SHOPPING. YAY:)
I will watch Dr. Phil, and hang out on his website. (Lot's of good advice when you are going through rough patches.)
And I will keep posting here for advice and support, and offer advice and support as well.
I will pray for the strength to move on. I will pray for the strength to remain being the kind-hearted person that I am, instead of letting this part of my life turn me angry and bitter.
I will give myself at least one hug everyday, and tell myself that I love me. And that I'm going to be fine.
I will also pinch myself when I'm thinking that I'm not "good enough" for him, or that I'm unloveable.
Instead of calling him I will...
1. take the dog for a walk and since it's good for me too I'll enjoy it.
2. turn on the tv and watch all the shows he hated (The Hills, Real World, LMN)
3. walk on the treadmill
4. hide that ice cream so that I don't gain 20 lbs from just looking at it :~)
5. tell myself I'm beautiful
6. go to dinner with friends
7. call my breakup buddy b/c she doesn't care if I cry in hear ear. she even talks back.
8. realize that he's not calling me for a reason and I'm better off
9. clean out my drawers b/c I'm moving home leaving him here with all the bills
10. MOST IMPORTANT: acknowledge that I am a good person and I deserve better than him!!!
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