Instead of calling, I will...

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Instead of calling, I will...
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Tue, 03-20-2007 - 11:25am

Lots of discussion this week about not contacting the ex, maybe even a little more than usual, probably because we have a lot of newbies in the last few weeks join us.

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Registered: 03-17-2007
Tue, 03-20-2007 - 8:42pm

Instead of calling, I will:

1.) Go shopping
2.) Spend more time with my family and friends
3.) cry
4.) Get facials, manicures, and pedicures-hey, in the end you have to take care of yourself!
5.) Begin taking a class that I'm interested in
6.) Read books that I have been meaning to read
7.) Have faith that God has bigger plans in mind--what, I'm not quite sure of yet but I guess I'll find out.
8.) Focus on work
9.) Clean like a mad woman
10.) Try my hardest not to think about the positive things about him--the negative got us to where we are at now

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Mon, 04-16-2007 - 10:09pm
bumping it to the top

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Mon, 04-16-2007 - 10:40pm

I wish I would have read this before sending the e-mail inviting him out to the movies with some friends later this week! But at least I made sure to mention it's a group outing (he probably won't come anyway), but I'm glad I read this, better late then never!

I'm going to make mine instead of calling/e-mailing/texting/IMing, I will

...go to the gym

...take the dog for a walk

...clean something

...do my nails

...call my friends

...read a book

...blog

...remind myself that what's meant to be will be, and there is someone out there who wants to be with me as much as I want to be with him

...focus on what I want out of my life

...and of course, come to the boards




Edited 4/16/2007 10:43 pm ET by rebainmi
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Mon, 04-16-2007 - 11:23pm

This is a great thread. The other night at 2 A.M. I got the urge and I ...wrote a message to my friend. It worked. Lets see what else...

...realize that he won't tell me anything I want to hear. If he did, he'd be calling me himself to say it!

...read a book.

...go to cuteoverload.com

...watch movies.

...listen to music, even sad music if I want to.

...look up funny pictures, jokes, or comics online.

...write something. Anything.

...do some homework, which also has the side effect of putting me to sleep.

...I'm graduating in May, so what I REALLY need to be doing is looking for a job.

...go for a walk and enjoy the fact that I live in such a beautiful city.

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Tue, 05-08-2007 - 9:03am
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Tue, 06-26-2007 - 4:36pm
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