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| Fri, 05-13-2005 - 1:40pm |
Hey all,
My BF broke up with me almost 4 weeks ago. I'm 27 and I have a daughter from a previous relationship (never married).
I'm still trying to figure things out and move forward as best I can but I find it incredibly difficult to maintain No CONTACT. You see, we lived together and for the first few weeks he called several times a week trying to organize this and finalize that. For a week now, things were peaceful and I figured that any remaining things he had left behind I could give to a mutual friend. Then he called again last Tuesday wanting to see if any mail had come in for him. He also wanted to take my daughter out for lunch. It made me so upset. Right now, I just dont have the ability to set any boundaries with him. I still love him very much and I find a hard time saying 'no' to him. I guess I just dont want to make things more awkward between us than they already are.
If he does come to see my daughter, this will be the first time I've seen him since he broke it off with me. I guess I'm just super nervous about it all.
-adc

Warm wishes to you, it's just my opinion, I'm sorry , it's such a sad situation.
Grace
Thanks Grace,
My biggest mistake in this relationship was getting back together with him. We lived together for 6 months and he got scared and left. A couple of months later we got back in touch and we decided to give it another shot, much too quickly. We never really resolved any of our core issues. And here were are again, he bails cause things got too tough and I'm heartbroken but trying my best to soldier on for the sake of my DD.
He is supposed to take her out for lunch tomorrow, but he still hasn't phoned or made contact to confirm. So I'm thinking he'll bail on this too. And if he does, thats fine as I have not made any promises to DD. But I doubt he'll get another shot at it. I just won't let him. And like you said, he can't be dragging little hearts around.
-adc
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