It gets better..

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Registered: 01-05-2007
It gets better..
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Fri, 01-05-2007 - 10:15pm
After only 4 and a half days it does get better! Oh god does it get better.I spent the whole day with friends and I never thought about him once! Not even ONCE. And im doing it again tomorrow. I never used to want to make plans with people, in case I missed talking to him or seeing him. But now, the less time I have to think about him the better. I still love him with everything I have and everything I am. But moving on is getting easier..and for anyone who thinks they will never get over it, you will. Ive only been broken up with the love of my life for four days! only FOUR DAYS! and moving on is already getting easier. I promise, It is not always hard, it does get easier. You just have to except it, and learn that it is over. And you will move on, and you will fall in love again. And someone else will make you just as happy, if not happier. And I hope that one day each and every one of you falls in love and lives happily, and never has to go through this. But for those that do go through is, be strong. And know that you are the best person you can be. And that has to be good enough for you before someone else will love you for it.

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Registered: 09-05-2005
Sat, 01-06-2007 - 10:33am

Hi Belly

Glad to hear you're doing better. Mine and your situation as far as timing goes, is similar. I am a week out from the break up and have gone through so many emotions. Work was hard this week and I had to talk to him about every day, no contact rule wasn't followed by me :( He still hasn't brought my s*** to my friend's house and I wish he would b/c that's all that left to do at this point.

I went to my counselor this week and pretty much just talked about him and she thinks he just has a lot to sort through but from what I can tell in his actions, he has moved on very quickly. Single now on myspace, netwking,dating, friends, etc.

I am trying to figure out how to get back out there without him being apart of everything I do and think about.

I feel in time he will try and come back but I feel bad for him b/c I have been there and when that time comes, he is going to be too late. He is already too late.

Glad to hear you're going back to the gym. That's where I have usually met the guys I go out with but the thought of going through the **** again is just very repulsive to me.

I wish I could meet someone who would make me forget him right now but I also know God is in control of all of that and when he thinks I'm ready it will happen and hopefully it will be for keeps.

Smile and have a great wknd!

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