is it my fault?

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is it my fault?
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Fri, 03-21-2008 - 7:10pm

Hi,


I had

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Fri, 03-21-2008 - 8:07pm

Welcome to the board funnygirl,


Sorry for the loss of your mom.


I'm going to give it to you straight.

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Fri, 03-21-2008 - 8:35pm

First of all, my condolences on the loss of your mother.

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Sat, 03-22-2008 - 5:22pm

I'm sorry about your loss, I don't want to imagine how that feels.

Brutally honest opinion: The guy's an a-hole and it's a true blessing he is out of your life. Seriously, what a jerk.

He's a master manipulator if he's got you thinking his "sex addiction" (puh-leez, so he's what, an animal who can't control himself? whatever), his online porn and visits to brothels, are somehow your fault.

No, chica. Cut this guy out of your life and stay far, far way afrom him if you hope to someday have a healthy realtionship. The relationship was NOT the best thng that ever happened to you-- the breakup is. So far.

Oh, yeah. Don't scream at people anymore. It's not helpful and lets them distract from the real issues ;-)

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Sat, 03-22-2008 - 6:23pm

Sweetie, this is not your fault, and you are better off without him.

 


 


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Registered: 03-07-2008
Sun, 03-23-2008 - 3:03pm

Turn around and run as far away as you can from that relationship! IT IS NOT EVEN CLOSE TO BEING YOUR FAULT! Men like that want you to think it is your fault to take the pressure off of themselves. Eww...get away from him! He will make you go insane! As suggested by Carrie...I read "Are you the one for me" by Barbara DeAngelis. It's helped me A LOT!! Good luck! (((hugs)))

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Registered: 09-25-2006
Mon, 03-24-2008 - 9:05pm

Guys,


To all of you who posted me, a heartfelt thank you for taking the time to help me and for your words of wisdom. They have helped me an awful lot.


I have to work with him tomorrow but I am just going to tune him out - avoid him completely as far as I am able to. If

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Registered: 09-25-2006
Thu, 03-27-2008 - 7:00pm

Hi again,


I was just reading the other board, Relationships Damaged by Pornography, and it seems a lot of men have this porn addiction - so what hope is there of ever meeting a decent guy?


Plus, I am 42 now. I really feel that I've missed the boat....


Funny x