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is it over?
| Sat, 08-21-2004 - 2:05am |
I live with my boyfriend and things have been kinda weird lately.... He was starting to become emotionally boring....Anyway I went on a trip the other day and had alot of thinking time and I came home and had a heart to heart with him.... I wasnt yelling or anything I was making sure to tell him what I liked that he did...... He said he would try and show me more attention and I w ent to sleep that night very happy.... Today he came home from work early and we were having a good time and I got ready to go to work,,, We got into a little argument over something dumb and he yelled out to me that he wanted us to move out.. He said he was done and that we (my children and I ) had to leave... I asked him why he didnt mention this the other night when we were having a heart to heart.... He said he didnt feel the need to and so I left and went to work....
I ended up crying at work and the supervisor took over for me so I could get it together.... I had forgotten something I needed as I ran out of the house quickly and so I callled him to see if he would bring it to me and he did and than I talked to him on the phone from work and he didnt say anything about the fight.... he is really stubborn though and Im afraid he wont change his mind...We work opposite shifts and so I came home and he was sleeping but I woke him up like I always do to tell him I was safley home. I got into bed and was cuddling with him and talking to him and he was talking back although I didnt mention the fight.... I told him that I was going to go get something to eat and that I hope he has sweet dreams and than i asked him for a kiss and he said no because we are both sick and he didnt want to move... I said ok and than i said I love you and he didnt say anything back.... So do I just start looking for a new home or try and work this out? my friend said I should ask him if this is what he really wants but Im half afraid of the answer...
I ended up crying at work and the supervisor took over for me so I could get it together.... I had forgotten something I needed as I ran out of the house quickly and so I callled him to see if he would bring it to me and he did and than I talked to him on the phone from work and he didnt say anything about the fight.... he is really stubborn though and Im afraid he wont change his mind...We work opposite shifts and so I came home and he was sleeping but I woke him up like I always do to tell him I was safley home. I got into bed and was cuddling with him and talking to him and he was talking back although I didnt mention the fight.... I told him that I was going to go get something to eat and that I hope he has sweet dreams and than i asked him for a kiss and he said no because we are both sick and he didnt want to move... I said ok and than i said I love you and he didnt say anything back.... So do I just start looking for a new home or try and work this out? my friend said I should ask him if this is what he really wants but Im half afraid of the answer...
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| Sat, 08-21-2004 - 10:55am |
Welcome to the board!! I'm so sorry you and your bf are having problems....I know the uncertainy of the relationship is scary. It sounds to me like he's still upset. He may just need some time to cool off. On the other hand he may be ready to throw in the towel. You need to give him a little space...and give him the opportunity to cool down. Start looking for another place to live...let him know you're looking and then ask him if it's really what he wants. I know it's hard to ask that when you are sooo afraid of the answer but you need to know. Regardless what happens....you'll make it through and we're here to help as much as we can. Good luck and keep us posted. I wish you the best.

