Is it really over?
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Is it really over?
| Thu, 09-29-2005 - 9:44pm |
Okay, so I fell in love with the most wonderful guy in the world...then he told me he needed "a break". I asked him to tell me what he meant by that, and he didn't really know. He works looong hours in the summer, and we saw each other less and less and this summer approached. I asked him if he wanted to be with me, he said yes, but we needed to take a break for the summer. I told him that if he wanted to break up with me, he should say so. He said he didn't want to break up. So, summer's over, and I'm still heartbroken...waiting for him to call. Believe me, I'm not dumb...I can see the writing on the wall. But I love this guy, and I want to be with him so much it hurts. What should I do? Wait for him? Call him? Forget about him? I really think we deserve a second chance. Was the "break" just an excuse, so that he wouldn't have to actually break up with me? HELP!!!!!!

Oh my..how sad. Well it sounds like the title of that book, "he Just ain't into you"..move on..if he wanted you he could NOT leave your side..let this bad egg GO...
Don't you think you deserve someone WONDERFUL in your life?
Thats terribly sad! Did he not call all summer? To be honest, taking a break is usually a bad sign. I remember asking for a break once, and it was because I didn't want to see him but I was chicken or scared to end it for good. And I wanted to be by myself, not with him, and sort of in the back of my mind knew he wasn't "it". I learned the hard way not to drag it out, and I finally ended it. That sounds terrible, and I don't know if that is the case here. I know you loved him and it totally sucks to be in love with someone who isn't sure they want to be with you. I do think you deserve some explanation or closure though. You might always wonder and wait, so call him. Be straitforward but don't sound desperate. Maybe you'll get your answer.
Wishing you the best,
Grace
Whatever happens, you can know that you were mature in handling the situation and did what you could to make things work. Hang in there.