Is it really over? Any help appreciated!

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Registered: 11-07-2007
Is it really over? Any help appreciated!
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Tue, 01-15-2008 - 9:00am

My ex-girlfriend and I broke up about 2 and a half months ago (10-23-07).

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Registered: 10-28-2005
Tue, 01-15-2008 - 11:10am

I have to tell you that when I was that age

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Registered: 02-07-2007
Tue, 01-15-2008 - 11:24am

Hello,


I may be wrong in saying this and anyone can correct me-but it doesn't seem fair of her to make you put your life on hold so she can make up her mind about you. She definitely needs the extra time to think and process things. I mean 6 plus years is a really really long time.


If I were in your position, I would prepare for the worst and move on with

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 01-15-2008 - 3:13pm

Welcome to the board confused98,


I'm sorry you are going through this. Learning to cope with rejection, disappointment and the end of a relationship is not easy.


Most relationships that start out when both people are in their early teens doesn't usually work out long term.

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Registered: 11-07-2007
Tue, 01-15-2008 - 5:52pm

I would first like to thank everyone once again for taking the time to read and post!


I have asked her but she has always been a very hard headed person or sturburn, whatever you prefer.

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Registered: 11-07-2007
Mon, 01-21-2008 - 12:00pm

Just an update:


Yesterday her grandmother contacted to see how I was doing.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 01-21-2008 - 1:52pm

::I have a question if I want to get back with her and obviously part of her does to, is it a bad thing to be friends during this time so I'm like still in the picture, you know i dont want to be forgotten, like the saying "out of sight, out of mind"?


The human mind must buy into this thought hook, line and sinker, because I see it a lot.

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Registered: 11-07-2007
Thu, 01-24-2008 - 9:11am

I'm just venting here, feel free to comment if you wish.


I ruined the NC yesterday, it was 2 weeks and I felt that I had to contact her so I text messaged her just saying Hi, nothing else.

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Registered: 11-07-2007
Tue, 01-29-2008 - 10:18am

Update:


Good day everyone just wanted to update with the situation.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 01-29-2008 - 11:28am

The text she sent you explaining why she'd reached out to you explains it very well.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 01-29-2008 - 11:59am

I hope you take what Sheri said to heart.