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is it really what it seems to be?ssl!
| Thu, 03-23-2006 - 5:24pm |
so this guy that was living with me wanted to move out of my house and instead of just being a man and saying look im moving out he had to come up with some lame ass excuse that i hacked in to his laptop while he was at work and i snoop and i look thru his things. i dont know maybe it made him feel better about moving out but whatever so the night he came and got some of things i just couldnt handle sitting at home so i went over to my best friends house who happens to be married to his best friend. i went over there to be with my friend ya know. and he was there! she said she got home from school and he was there that it wasnt planned like that well she didnt know what to say to me and she couldnt even just give me a hug and say look its gonna be ok all she could do was sit there and look at me cry and ask me what i was gonna do cuz she was tired and wanted to go to bed. so i left. the next day i found out that the guy that lived with me is talking to one of my best friends classmates (they hang out outside of school too and i have met this girl she knew our situation) and my best friend didnt even tell me, like i know it was going on while he was still living with me and my best friend didnt even tell me and then i read online my best friend talking smack about me to the guy! she told her mom that she didnt know my guy and her friend were talking but i have proof showing she did and basically when she was talking smack about me to my guy she called me a slut. she told her mom that it was probably just her being a smart ass she didnt mean it to hurt me. but hello if shes my best friend she shouldnt have said any of the things she said right? and she should have atleast given me a heads up about him and her friend? especially since she knew more than anyone just how much i cared about this guy.im over the guy like i have the rest of his stuff packed up just waiting for him to get it but now i feel betrayed by my best friend, in the end everyone just keeps saying that i am acting crazy because he wanted to move out of my house, but i havent even talked to him since he moved out, its not like im begging for him to come back or something. everyone (besides my guy the girl hes talking to my best friend and her hubby)thinks my best friend is in the wrong here and so do i but i need an outsiders opinion. since she found out i knew she was talking smack she has yet to call me and even try to talk things out,i want to go to her house and take his crap over there and be like look if you want to be on his side after telling me you dont want to get in the middle of this then here you handle his crap (he would probably be there too) but i dont know if i should like me and this girl have been best friends for 6 years, we even have matching tattoos that say love respect strength and eternity in chinese but apparently those words dont mean anything to her anymore. please someone give me some perspective on this! thanks

HI LOVEBITES
HAVE YOU EVER HEAR ABOUT THE SAYING "YOUR BESTFRIEND IS YOUR WORST ENEMY"...THE HARD PART IS THEY KNOW YOUR SECRET.
ACTUALLY THAT HAPPEN TO ME TOO. I HAVE THIS FRIEND THAT I TRUST AND TURN TO BE MY MOST NIGHT MARE/ENEMY.
YOU DONT NEED THIS KIND OF CROWD/PEOPLE..THEY ARE CRAZY!! JUST MOVE ON....GOOD LUCK
THATS GOOD ATLEAST YOU MAKE THAT FIRST MOVE AND BRING HIS CLOTHES THERE TO YOUR FRIEND..I MEAN YOUR ENEMY NOW hehehehe..i was thinking maybe this girl/your exgirl friend...likes your exboyfriend. i mean i know she married..but the way you mention everything here..makes me wonder.IF SHE LIKE YOUR EX?
WHO CARES..ANYWAYS YOU NEVER KNOW ONE DAY SHE WILL FEEL SOMETHING AS YOU OR EVEN WORST RIGHT?
GOOD LUCK
yep and im glad i did take his clothes over to her house becuase when i came home i found out that when he was supposed to pick up his clothes from my house today he "couldnt wait to make me cry" atleast in the end i know im the bigger person in this whole situation. atleast i can ended those relationships with out a guilt conscience!
no she doesnt like him, he is her husbands best friend and the way she is, is if her husband is on one side shell be on the same side no matter who gets hurt in the process....sad but true. she wrote me an email after i left her house last night about everythign going on so i wrote her back and she wrote me again this morning but at the end of hers she said "well it sounds like you have your mind set" like im saying i dont want to be friends with her or something. i just said whatever to me it sounds like your the one with the mind set....its funny cuz over the years we have known each other weve always called each other left and right nut and said no di@% could get in the middle of us but she let the biggest one of all come between us....