It seems he's not that INTO me anymore

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Registered: 12-31-1969
It seems he's not that INTO me anymore
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Wed, 05-31-2006 - 10:57am
My boyfriend tells me that he doesn't want me as much anymore. It kinda hurt me when he said that but on the other hand, he also STILL loves me. I don't know what to do, this is confusing yet crazy. I cna understand him in a way, so many things I cannot stand about him. Like he's always showing off "Oh I can't wait to see a fine girl at the store." yet he isn't playing with me. He never done this before but lately he has. I love him SO much but I don't want to waste time with a boy who probably doesn't want me as much. What should I do?
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anonymous user
Wed, 05-31-2006 - 5:57pm
You might want to consider ending this relationship on your own terms, and then allow yourself to find someone who is deserving of your attention. Good luck! :-)
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anonymous user
Wed, 05-31-2006 - 6:23pm

Well, if he's "telling" you things like that, imagine what he might be "doing" when you're not around. Or it could be that he wants you to know that he wants to end it, or something to that nature. Somebody that loves you doesn't tell you things like that even if they think it....

Well, I don't know how much time you have been with him but you might want to reconsider the relationship.

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anonymous user
Thu, 06-01-2006 - 9:51am

PEACE OUT of that relationship right quick!
seriously it's tough but you have to think of yourself.
my ex broke up with me after 4 years - i lived in boston all through college and came home to spend time with him every weekend - many many memories but that is just what they are: the past.
it was hell when he left me for his much needed "space" but i will not take his calls anymore.
it's hard but i didn't like who i had become - walking on eggshells to please him and lacking self confidence. don't let anyone walk all over you.
take a good look at who you are and what you want.
it takes time and it will take even more time if you keep wasting it with him.

if he's saying this now and making you feel sad think about the future they get 10x worse!