Is it wrong.....??

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Registered: 02-21-2004
Is it wrong.....??
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Tue, 08-17-2004 - 4:19pm
That I'm happy that he's getting his heart crushed by this girl? That I'm happy that he's finally knowing what it feels like??? Most of me is just rejoicing and saying how sweet revenge(even though I didn't really do it) is. But then there's that little nagging voice telling me to be nice, and that I shouldn't be happy over this. That being happy is b*tchy and I should feel sorry for him and help him if he needs it. And in a way I do feel sorry for him, I wouldn't really wish a broken heart on anyone. But it's just sorta nice to know he might know how it feels now, it's sorta nice to know, he's gonna get to go through what I went through (in some levels). I dunno....what do you think??



~*~Zsa

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Registered: 04-08-2004
Tue, 08-17-2004 - 5:02pm
Well, definitely don't "help him through it." But, sure, what's wrong with being happy that what comes around goes around? I think you're lucky that you know he's being crushed, rather than just having to hope and wonder. You don't wish heartbreak on the whole world, right, just upon one particular person who broke your heart first, I think you're okay.
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Registered: 07-16-2003
Tue, 08-17-2004 - 10:24pm
I think you are normal and very human! I too have played that senario in my head a few times. I too feel bad for thinking it, since I was the one who told him that I only wanted him to be happy. But would I gloat a bit if it came to pass --- you bet I would.