It's bad today

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Registered: 11-07-2007
It's bad today
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Sat, 02-16-2008 - 2:32pm

Hey Everyone,


I was here a few years ago with a breakup and now I'm back.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 02-17-2008 - 8:48pm

I'm not sure what advice or support you're looking for.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 02-18-2008 - 2:33pm

Welcome to the board libraloved,


He probably did like you.

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Registered: 11-07-2007
Mon, 02-18-2008 - 2:46pm




Hi Sheri,


Thanks for the reply.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 02-18-2008 - 3:06pm

Oh, I hear you on that--I didn't necessarily think my most recent guy had "forever" potential but I was definitely hoping for more than 5 months together.

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Registered: 11-07-2007
Mon, 02-18-2008 - 3:21pm




Yes, the hope thing is an issue.

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Registered: 11-07-2007
Tue, 02-19-2008 - 10:51am




Hi Sheri,


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 02-19-2008 - 11:07am

I don't think apologizing was a bad idea at all--it would have been better 2 weeks ago but better late than never.


BUT, do recognize that contacting him will set you back in the healing process regardless of whether he responds or not (probably not right away however--it tends to sneak up on you).

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Registered: 11-07-2007
Tue, 02-19-2008 - 11:30am




Yeah, I agree, I wish I had been able to put my emotions aside for a moment and see the situation for what it really was...him having to deal with the death of his mother.