IT'S BEEN 2 MOS, SHOULD I CALL????
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IT'S BEEN 2 MOS, SHOULD I CALL????
| Sun, 11-21-2004 - 1:34pm |
Ok, people out there, I need some advice. I was seeing this guy and things ended badly, where I told him to leave me alone, and never call me again. He has respected my wishes and hasn't called me. It's been 2 months now, and my hurt and pain have been minimal, even though I still think about our relationship and what happened to us. He's really a good person, and I realized alot of things. My question is I want to know how he's doing? Should I call him? His birthday is coming up in the next couple of weeks, and I was going to wait until after his b-day to call him, but I don't know. I'm not nervous like I thought I should be, but I'm just curious to see how life's been treating him. Am I doing the right thing, by wanting to call him? Please be honest and give me that painful advice if I need it. Thank you, a few of my friends tell me to do it, but IVillage has become the DOCTOR for me these past few painful months that I want to hear from you guys first. Thank you!!!!

I say call.....what can it hurt? I've stayed in contact with my ex-bf and I don't think I'm fooling myself, but I think we have a chance of getting back together.
Kim
Hi,
I think it depends on who ended it. If you broke up with him and told him to leave...then I guess it may be OK to call for you, but may be difficult for him to deal with. Know why you're calling...is it simply to leave the door open? Be careful, cause all the work you've done to "heal" is going to be affected by calling him. I'm sure you care a great deal about him, but think about the bigger picture before calling him. Can you really be a friend to him 2 months after a break up? It's really a hard call to make, but trust your instinct on this one.
good luck:)
I think it should be fine to give him a call. If lack of communication was a problem before...well than maybe you can fix that.