its been 5 days since we broke up

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-05-2003
its been 5 days since we broke up
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Tue, 06-28-2005 - 4:19pm
and im a mess.. we were together for 9 months. im a single mom, good career, own my own home, he is 4 yrs younger then me and quit his job for 3 months and till this day still isnt working. i couldnt stand it. i would constantly nag. we got into a huge fight while i was at work thur and havent talked to him since. i know its over, i have called several times he wont answer, i just dont understand how after spending everyday together and talking about marriage with this man, he would end it over the phone and not talk, i cant sleep or nothing, i go to sleep and wake up crying, go to work and sit here and cry, im a mess...
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Registered: 01-30-2004
Thu, 06-30-2005 - 10:33pm
I'm so sorry to hear about your break-up...I know it hurts....but it sounds to me like he was looking for someone to take care of him....hence him not working and not trying to get a job....he realized the free ride was coming to an end and split.
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