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Its hurts me, but I know its right...
| Wed, 10-03-2007 - 7:37pm |
My finance and I broke up last night, actually I broke up with him
| Wed, 10-03-2007 - 7:37pm |
My finance and I broke up last night, actually I broke up with him
Welcome to the board locallilly,
I think it's ok to set boundaries and stick to them. You've done that.
Thank you Carrie, for validating my requests of my fiance, well I guess it would be closer to ex-fiance. He did call last night but still can't seem to understand my reasoning, saying that he is under a lot of pressure and he needs to let of steam with his co-workers, he did admit that he made a big mistake by not coming home on my day off but he still doesn't understand my not wanting to be involved and consumed by his new position, he actually wants me to work at the resort with him, does this seem unreasonable to anyone?
I have left the ball in his court and I guess if he really wants to work it out he will make the arrangements to go to counseling, I have always made all of our arrangements for just everything easing his way and I am tired, so I have told him he needs to do this and to get back to me with the dates and times, so far now I haven't heard a thing, it's driving me crazy the not knowing one way or another but I know I cannot weaken now or it will be a lifetime of this behavior.