Jealousy and the friend group

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2008
Jealousy and the friend group
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Wed, 06-08-2011 - 1:19pm

I dated this guy on & off for 2 1/2 years.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Wed, 06-08-2011 - 8:01pm

Itshightime, I think that if you can take a new boyfriend when he's at a party alone, then it's fair for him to take a new girlfriend when you're

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Registered: 04-25-2011
Wed, 06-08-2011 - 8:05pm

I wouldn't go if you know it will upset you.

I remember it had been 10 years since I divorsed my 1st husband..........happily married to my current husband of 27 years this November - and I get a call from my ex-SIL and we were just talking and then she said ex had a girlfriend.

After all those years it still made me jealous....... and he lived in Chicago and I am in L.A.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2009
Thu, 06-09-2011 - 12:12am

What you do is you go to the party, you act like an adult.......and enjoy the party.

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Registered: 12-27-2008
Thu, 06-09-2011 - 11:25am
Thanks. It does seem that if I owe it to our mutual friends, who were have been supportive and kind and stood by me during the NC period, to finally let go and be gracious and mature. The difficulty is that I truly care for him. It wasn't just about the sex. But I have to move on.
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Registered: 12-27-2008
Thu, 06-09-2011 - 11:26am
Emotions do tend to linger, don't they?