just broke up, it hurts

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Registered: 04-04-2008
just broke up, it hurts
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Fri, 04-04-2008 - 9:35am

Hi, I am 40 years old and was just dumped by my year and half boyfriend.


I thougfht i was a great relationship, we did EVERYTHING together, spend week-ends together, knew each others family well, sometimes hinted on " if we get serious" ....... this or that, although he always had the I´m not sure i want to commit phrase.


I have a 10 year old son, and although at first he tried, he would use it when he would tell me " I´m not sure I see myself living with you and your son " ...... but then he would just call me the next day, and keep averything just the same, great calls, movies, everything................


Maybe I was blind but if " actions speack louder than words" , his actions were great, I mean talking 5 times a day every day , seeing each other 2 to 3 times a week and every week-end , having fun, enyoing time together, calling each other cute names, relating well with each others family.


I never pressuerd, he would always say like " ............ well we ´ve been together for a year, wonder what will happen............ but he did start to say things like in the last 2 month , I don´t know if I want to give up my freedom


So past time I felt I could also talk about the future and I told him, well would you move in with me...........,cause we were like great, spending all trhe time togerther, having fun everything,

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Registered: 01-12-2007
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 5:03pm

We are kindred spirits!!!!!

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Registered: 04-04-2008
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 5:22pm

I think I am going into the ACCEPTENCE stage of the healing process, it´s good but it´s bad.


Good because it´s healthy to loose hope but Bad because it´s the resignation that it´s over ....

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Registered: 02-04-2008
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 5:23pm

haha! can't say mine was a frenchmen from Normandy but i can say he was a romanian that needs to go back to romania! haha! he's really just an idiot. i can't believe that he's so "in love" with his new girlfriend! its funny and sad at the same time, cuz i know he's treating her the way he treated me and if she starts getting attached, he'll probably grow distant. but who knows?


they say that what they love about you in the beginning, they'll end up hating about you in the end. its sad and pathetic. these guys just need to go move to an island with eachother and leave us alone! :)

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