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Just broke up last night
| Tue, 06-07-2005 - 5:43pm |
I've been reading this board for a couple weeks, as my relationship unraveled. We officially broke it off last night. We've been dating off and on for 2 years...each time he breaks up and then contacts me months down the line and we get back together...this time it really seemed like things were going down the good and right path, then he starts getting distant with me a couple of weeks ago, cancelling, etc. I finally confront him and he says he's so sorry for all the mixed messages, not calling, etc, but he's "f***k*d up in the head and doesn't know what he wants"...and he can't continue a romantic relationship with me. He wants us to still be friends since of course, I'm just so great. I am just so confused about the friend thing...I feel like this is a cycle with him...he wants me, no he doesn't, then he does again. I don't know what support I am looking for. I just feel really rejected, hurt and sad. I'm 32 and all my friends are in happy relationships, while I still struggle...it's so hard sometimes. Thanks for listening...I've enjoyed the support you all give one another on this board.

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Im in the same exact position as you, but i have come to terms with the fact that this yo-yo love thing is not heathly for anyone. it sucks. it seems like every summer my ex goes though this "thing" i dont know its like hes a totally different person, and this time i cut it off before he could, it was only two days ago ago im still in "shock" all i want is to be further along in this stupid "break up process" these 2 days have seemed like 2 weeks (probably b/c we talked like 4 times a day) but hang in there, even when he comes back, because chances are he will, men usually do (for some reason or other). i have read like 2 books in two days anything to get your mind off of it, rent movies buy some new music, you deserve better!!
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