JUST DID IT!!!
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JUST DID IT!!!
| Tue, 11-14-2006 - 2:29am |
I JUST HAD SEX WITH MY EX AND NOW I FEEL LIKE CRAP.
HE SAYS HE DOESN'T HAVE A NEW GIRL AND ISN'T SLEEPING AROUND.
HE JUST LEFT TO MEET "HER".
HE IS ALWAYS ASKING ME IF I HAVE ANOTHER BOYFRIEND. WHERE I HAVE BEEN. HAVE I BEEN WITH ANYONE SINCE WE BROKE UP.
WHY???
WHY THE QUESTIONS???
YOU LEFT ME.
YOU SHOULDN'T CARE.
WHY DO YOU CARE???
I AM SO EMOTIONALLY TORN APART RIGHT NOW I AM SICK TO MY STOMACH.
I WAS WITH HIM FOR 6 YEARS AND HE UP AND LEFT.
WE HAVE 2 KIDS.
HE IS SENDING ME SO MANY MIXED SIGNALS!!!
WHAT SHOULD I DO???
SINCERELY...
LONELY, SAD, AND SCARED.

I'm sorry about that.
Listen to cl-i_b_sandradee - she gave you excellent advice.
I'm going to try to answer some of your questions though - these are best guesses based on lots of human behavior.
::HE IS ALWAYS ASKING ME IF I HAVE ANOTHER BOYFRIEND. WHERE I HAVE BEEN. HAVE I BEEN WITH ANYONE SINCE WE BROKE UP.
Because his ego wants to make sure he's still the only guy in your life. It makes him feel good.
::WHAT SHOULD I DO???
You are going to have to be the one that sets boundaries and enforces them. He will try to get what he wants - an ego stroke from you, sex, etc. you will have to be the one that says no, means it and doesn't allow the situation to 'go there'.
Sorry you have to go through this.
Carrie
First of all, forgive yourself.
It's not uncommon to sleep with an ex again, and whether or not you should have, you did. That's it. So don't beat yourself up over it.
Because you're here, it seems you have the desire to move on. That is all you need to do, take one step at a time toward recovery.
You will get stronger. Just don't look back, look forward!!
Hugs.