just need to vent...

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Registered: 01-12-2006
just need to vent...
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Tue, 03-14-2006 - 12:27pm
I was having a good day when this girl(the one my ex cheated on me) called... She was asking me to send her more emails from my ex, i'm like i'm not gonna do that sh*t anymore, I gave you that favor before if you don't believe it and thinks its old, then whatever. She was also asking me for my pic, i'm like what for then I hung up. She called again and said she talked to my ex and he wanted her to tell me to send pictures of me that I sent him, told her why don't you let him do it then, i'm sure he's gonna sent you an ugly pic, she's like if you're concern that he's gonna sent me that then why don't you email it yourself. I'm like I don't care, you could believe what you want to believe. She's like then I have to go with him then. Fine by me. they just aggravated me.... but i'm fine now after venting...
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Registered: 01-31-2006
Tue, 03-14-2006 - 4:10pm

hi eenie_meenie

you know what its kinda annoying if your exbf's gfriend calling you ha...if i were you just ignore her phone calls and tell her if she doesnt stop calling and harrassing you. you will report for verbal harassment i bet yah she stop calling you... just like my exbf's wife she keep on sending me some messages and even talk bad about me. what i did i reply, i told her to stop sending me messages and i warn her if she didnt stop. i have to report her and finally she stop sending me messages.

i think the only reason thats why your exbf girl now bugging you coz i bet you, your part of their argument sometimes. i'm assuming she so jealous of you. TELL HER SHE COULD KISS YOUR ASSSS hehehehehe

good luck

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Registered: 01-12-2006
Tue, 03-14-2006 - 4:54pm
I know this is bad but I was so pissed at her and I don't wanna call my ex plus I dunno his new number so I called his mom and left a message for him that his GF was calling me a lot, they told me to ignore her coz they think she's crazy, his sister even said that young girls do everything just to get the things they can't have so, I didn't get that but don't want to explore it. So, the girl called me this afternoon, cursing at me and calling me a liar and asked me why I would call his mom. I just hung up the phone, didn't bother to say anything to her. I'm planning to change my number, do you think its a good idea?
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Registered: 01-31-2006
Tue, 03-14-2006 - 5:45pm

hi eenie meenie

actually changing your number is a VERY GOOD IDEA. but my concerned is what about your friends. well actually you could just give your new number to them right. this time make sure she wont get your number.

i bet you when you call your exbf mom. she get all pissed ha! thats funny! now she think your all that to the mom. THATS GOOD!!!

THAT GIRL IS TOTALLY PSYCHO! I'M JUST HOPING SHE DOESNT KNOW WHERE YOUR HOUSE IS..JUST BE CAREFUL OKAY!

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Registered: 01-12-2006
Tue, 03-14-2006 - 5:57pm
I've thought about it and I might keep the number, if she ever call again, I will do something legal about it like a police report or something... I'll be really careful with this psycho on the loose... thanks for the advices... life is really crazy...
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Registered: 06-10-2003
Wed, 03-15-2006 - 3:38pm

Just FYI, I had a guy (ex) calling and harrassing me years ago and I called the police and they wrote up an incident report. They came out to my place, used my home phone and left him a message on his machine to give them a call and do not call my house anymore.

I'm not sure what kind of 'charges' they can file if he did violate that, but the police voicemail would probably be enough to make her heart jump and not call you anymore. I wouldn't if I were her!

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Registered: 01-12-2006
Wed, 03-15-2006 - 5:54pm
I will do that if she ever calls me again. Right now, my phone is pretty much quiet all day, hopefully, it stays that way from now on... I mean, i'm sure she got the message loud & clear when I told my ex's mom to tell my ex that his psycho gf was calling me all the time.