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just need to vent...
| Mon, 03-06-2006 - 2:24pm |
I'm mad at myself, for putting up with this little game of my ex-bf and the girl... now, he's mad at me and never wants to talk, the girl keeps on calling me letting me know what he's doing to get her back and he proposed to her, i'm so hurt, he didn't even try to call me... I feel like the joke was on me... I was with him first and he chose her over me, devastating as it is, i'm glad that I found out before its too late... It just hurt so bad...

HI PATTINE
JUST WONDERING!!!! HOW SHE GOT YOUR NUMBER? WHY DO YOU BELIEVE WHAT SHE SAY?
DONT YOU EVER THINK THAT SHE MIGHT MAKING UP STORY TO GET YOUR EXBF....JUST TO BE WTH HER!
GUYS ARE GUYS. I KNOW THEY WILL DENY THE TRUTH.. BUT HAVE U EVER SEE THEM KISSING, HUGGING AND ETC TO BELIEVED HER STORY..
BUT ALSO GUYS DONT LIKE EXPLAINING THEIR SELF..I DONT KNOW WHY THEY ARE LIKE THAT. INSTEAD OF STRAIGHTEN OUT EVERYTHING TO US THEY RUN..EVEN THEY KNOW THAT THEY ARE NOT GUILTY..THIS IS JUST A FRIENDLY ADVISED GOOD LUCK!!!
So...piecing this together...you were dating this guy who has decided to go back to his ex-girlfriend. And now you're being put in the middle? Why are they calling you? Was he with this girl when you started dating him? ARE YOU SURE? There's some reason this girl is calling you; she's angry at you for something. The first thing I'd do is stop taking their calls. Just get yourself out of the whole situation altogether. It's hard enough dealing with being hurt, but now you're being harassed as well? You don't have to put up with that. Cut off all contact and move on with your life and be glad that it's not you! You said you were 'with him first' but then you also said that this is his ex-gf and they lived together for 1-1/2 years. Are you the ex too? Your story just isn't complete...
Steph
hi pattine
okay let me put your story all together correct me if i'm wrong...so who's the first gf you are? she is? coz on your first post the way i understand your the first one...but this last post it seem to be she the first one....
anywaysss you dont deserved this..they both playing games with you! she is crazy if shes the first gf. shes soooo st..pid to be with him after she find out your on the picture too....dont think your st..pid coz your not..BUT she is!!! it seems to me that she got played with this guy..
HI PATTINE46
ACTUALLY TO BE HONEST WITH YOU EVEN YOU READ ALL MY POST/MY ADVISES HERE IN IVILLAGE...I'M ASSUMMING I'M THE ONLY PERSON ALWAYS SAY FIGHT FOR THEIR RELATIONSHIP....ONLY IF THERE IS A GOOD MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP...
AT YOUR STAGE I'M REALLY SUGGESTING JUST MOVE ON..I KNOW IT HURT...BUT HIS NOT WORTH AT ALL....HIS CONFUSS....AND I'M ASSUMMING THAT HIS BEEN DATING BOTH OF U AT THE SAME TIME...WHO KNOWS IF THEIR MORE GIRLS INVOLVED...THIS GUY IS A BIG TIME PLAYER..YOU DONT WANT THIS...JUST REMEMBER IT NOT YOUR LOST...AND YOU DONT WANT TO END UP GETTING "STD"..
HE MIGHT GIVE YOU THIS!!! OR EITHER WORST THAN THAT!!! WELL GOOD LUCK YOUR A GOOD PERSON I COULD TELL THAT..YOU DESERVED MUCH BETTER..DONT WORRY I PRAY FOR YOU! GOD BLESS YOU