Just when i thought it was going good
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| Sun, 02-18-2007 - 4:49pm |
This is my first post & i just hope i don't sound whiney. I jsut needed someone besides friends & my mother to confide in.
Well Valentine's Day was wonderful. I bought her flowers, chocolates & a camera for memories(she had complained about not having any photos of us). Then we went on our date to the Movie Tavern & enjoyed Hannibal Rising & a pretty good meal. She was tired & went home. We have a long distance relationship. I live in a small town about 70 miles from D/FW & she lives in Mesquite, TX. Well the next day she calls & we talk & she tells me this long distance is finally starting to take a toll on her. We don't talk for long but it starts eating away at me. We talk again later & i'm normally not one to speak how i feel but i couldn't help it. We had almost been together half a year & i really really was starting to dig her & she had said she really really liked me as well. When it all came down to it we had to break up because ther wasn't another option at the time. So i asked if ther was any chance of us getting back together at a later time & she said yes. But it eats at me still. I mean why? I don't understand. She also told me that nothing had changed between us just the title of boyfriend & girlfriend. Can anyone put why i feel so miserable everyday if there is still that which we felt there? Is it because i'm longing? Maybe i feel as if she just told me what i wanted to hear even though she said it wasn't someone please help this is going to drive me to the edge.
Edited 2/18/2007 4:55 pm ET by confusedbeyondbelief

Hi Confused!
Of course you feel sad, you don't know what's going on. You have no real answers and are just guessing what she's saying is true. That's the worst part of being in this type of situation. You have no choice but to believe the other person is telling you the truth, yet.. you feel in your gut it's not. Call it self doubt, instinct.. or just plain confusion, any of the above leads you to this not knowing place of uncertanty.
Unfortunately you have to wait it out or move on. :( And from what i've read lately... most would tell you to move on.
Sorry for your hurting.
Hi confusedbyondbelief and welcome to the board - I think what you are feeling is normal.