keeping my stuff hostage

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Registered: 01-14-2005
keeping my stuff hostage
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Fri, 01-14-2005 - 2:19pm
my boyfriend of over a year broke up with me out of the blue on christmas. we both have a lot of each others belongings, so a couple of weeks later, after a bit of healing, i emailed him asking him a time & location that would be best to exchange items. he replied back that he was in a lot of pain, but w/out answering the question. a week later i emailed him again asking the same question, and this time he replied that he did not know what to say and would get back to me the next day. a few days later he still had not replied, so i sent him a third email asking the same question. he has not replied at all to this one. he has some valuable belongings of mine and i don't understand why he is ignoring my requests since he was the one who ended the relationship. any ideas to why he is keeping my things hostage and how i can get through to him that i want them back?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 01-14-2005 - 3:33pm

aphrodite423....


If your b/f has ignored you twice....try one of these ideas:


1. Go over to his place (with a Father, Brother or strong male companion) and retrieve your stuff in his presence.