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Know I'm Going to Hurt Him...
| Fri, 02-08-2008 - 10:04am |
Okay, this is somewhat of a vent...and a plea for some advice. BTW, I have been all over the boards posting left and right. Mostly I am just putting off what I know will be a painful moment.

Welcome to the board eurowife35,
::If I leave him now, I think he'll be in some financial trouble because he can't afford the house payments on the house that he and his MOTHER bought together
Sounds like if he bought the house with her, she will help him. I'm sure they will work it out together.
You have to do what's right for you.
have you tried counseling? it sounds like you fell out of love with him in the sense you are not in love or don't feel like you are.
Hi there,
You have made a good point that I'm going to have to own up to choosing to divorce. I have left a lot of details out, and didn't want to disparage my DH but perhaps I have left the impression that I am just leaving on a whim because everything isn't a bed of roses. I jumped into marriage too young and should've noticed the warning signs...but chose to ignore them because I was in love.
Many of us have made mistakes (sometimes big mistakes) in marrying the wrong people... but when we have the wisdom to face the truth, we also have the awareness and strength to change.