The last straw.
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| Mon, 03-07-2005 - 9:05am |
I've decided after this weekend it's over with me and my bf. After 3 months of constant disappointment, crude remarks, and him basically treating me like garbage, I've had enough. (see previous post for details)
I just can't take it anymore. It's just been hard because I kept thinking things would get better, or he'd change, but it's only gotten worse. This weekend was the last straw. I just don't know how someone who supposedly loves you, can treat you so terribly, then joke around and say, "Oh baby, I was drunk, I was just joking...blah, blah, blah" BS!
He was drunk Sat afternoon with 2 of his buddies. I stopped over there to say hi to them. His friends are actually decent guys. Here's just a few comments I got from my lovely bf....
"You would be so beautiful if only you'd grow your hair out." (I WOULD be beautiful if ONLY???.....his friends even got pissed at him for that comment.)
How about....
"You and your damn sweatshirts, you need to wear some cuter clothes". (um, it's saturday, that's what I wear.)
Then he proceeded to lift my shirt in front of his friends, like he can just do whatever the heck he wants to me? Don't think so.
So Sat was the last straw. I swear, I've never been that humiliated as I was this weekend.
It's over. I'm done.
Mia

good for you.
this guy does not respect you at all!!!!!!!
the right guy will greet you with a kiss and tell you youre beautiful and thank you for stopping by.
it might be hard for a while....but you deserve better...do not change your mind...remmeber why you did this!!! stay strong. youll find someone who treats you better for sure.