Left hanging and wondering continued....
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| Mon, 03-13-2006 - 2:28pm |
Well I guess at this point I am no longer hanging, referring to my earlier post under the same title.
We've seen/talked once in the last 2 weeks when she gave me THE talk...Needing time alone to figure things out, I (me) done nothing wrong that it was her, "hopefully we can be friends, blah blah blah....
Although this has been a VERY tough sad time for me and I told her this during the talk that I will respect her discsion for figure things out on her own, I have NOT called her NOR has SHE called me since our talk. Just silence!
Ladies, please explain the idea behind the "NC" (no call?) thing....I do miss her a lot, so what if (and I'm not holding my breath that she will!!!) but what if she were to call me and admit to making a mistake/appologizing blah blah... What would I say or think/do? Thats were this NC thing confuses me....
2 last questions...
1. Should I go get all of my stuff (clothes mostly) from her place?
She left that decision up to me as I was leaving after out talk/dinner the other night.
I didn't know what to do then and I still dont know.......
2. What do I do if she calls/contacs me later?
These are 2 of the things that I have occationally been wondering about...

hi bozo
hello actually if you remember i'm the one who advised you before that your the MAN so your the one who have to make that first move....BUT ACTUALLY AT THIS SITUTION YOU HAVE TO RESPECT HER DESICION TO GIVE TIME TO THINK....IF YOU CALL HER YOU MIGHT START ANNOYING HER. LET HER MISS YOU FOR A WHILE AND IF SHE CALL YOU ACT NORMAL. IF EVER SHE OPEN UP CONVERSATION ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP TELL HER THE TRUTH. TELL HER THAT YOUR WILLING TO BE PART OF HER LIFE AND HER KIDS.
IF EVER SHE NEVER CALL FOR A REASON SHE DOESNT REALLY WANT TO HAVE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU...JUST MOVE ON AND YOU DONT WANT TO BE KEEP ON EXPECTING FOR HER TO BE WITH YOU RIGHT....LIFE IS TOO SHORT! IT SEEMS TO ME THAT YOU ARE A GOOD GUY THAT EVERY LADYS WANNA MARRY(HAVE)..DONT LET TIME PAST YOU..YOUR NOT GETTING ANY YOUNGER!
MY ADVISED TO YOU OPEN YOUR HEART AND YOUR MIND....SHE JUST OUT THERE WAITING FOR YOU(the right person that your waiting)